8 Things Men Notice About Your Body During Sex (that you’re self conscious about)
Want to know what men are secretly paying attention to during sex? 👀 The sounds, the sweat, the faces you make, the way you look in certain positions — he notices all of it. And his reaction is almost never what you think. 🔥
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Most women are so busy monitoring themselves during sex that they're not actually there. I created a quick 2-minute quiz that reveals how he actually experiences you in bed — what he's noticing, what he's craving, and what's getting in the way of deeper connection 👀✨
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Your self-consciousness is the problem — not your body. The sounds your body makes, the way you look from behind, the sweat on your skin, your breathing getting heavier — none of that bothers him. Most of it he's actively into. What actually gets in the way is when you're in your head instead of in the moment with him.
In this video, I break down 8 things men notice about your body during sex that you're probably self-conscious about — from your facial expressions and the sounds you can't control, to what happens when you're on top, to how you look right after — plus a bonus insight on what your hands are doing (and what it signals to him).
These aren't reassurances to make you feel better — they're what men actually experience. And understanding this might change how you show up in the bedroom forever.
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No shame to uncontrollable body noises and facial expressions in orgasm IMHO!! Heck enjoy yourself and laugh together!!!!
Thank you, Mat! That was perfect. It answered a lot of my self-consciousness questions …I am 80 years old and my boyfriend is 77 which is not important to me or him, except but I worry about all of these physical things…I want to be as sexy as I used to be…Mainly, how my body looks now… I’ve told him I would like to put black sheets on my bedroom mirrors, which he doesn’t think is funny because he tells me he sees me as me, no matter what… and before other ladies judge … just remember one of these days, you’ll get older too, but your feelings in the inside stay the same…I’m lucky to have found him…
My hands,i can’t keep them still…all over his body…😮😊❤