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You have been so very helpful!! DR Ramani. I am empathic so sadly I’ve attracted narcissists NOW I can see the red flags and finally learning it’s not Me
I wanted connection, but they wanted control.
Yeah, that’s what happens to all of us with these people. It’s all about manipulation and control.
OMG THIS!
Shallow Hal can never go deeper that surface! The weather never changes in Chicago remember that and find someone else for a real connection these peeps are energy vamps feeding off your soul!
@lebasietsi3061it’s so gross once you’re AWAKE
Keep up the great work waking people up to the TOXIC ENVIRONMENT which both CREATES NARCISSISTS and promotes them to positions of POWER wherein all the rest of us SUFFER AT THEIR HANDS not understanding how they make it feel like its NORMAL when its really DESTROYING MANKIND and we have to CHANGE the environment our children grow up in! Your work is BADLY IN DEMAND and people are really starting to WAKE UP to that FACT…so THANK YOU!
The most confusing thing in my 3 psychopathic (far advanced from narcissistic) relationships was when I THOUGHT they dropped their narc masks and showed a bit of humanity to me. It kept me hooked!! My brain told me, “oh, there IS hope! There is a human in there!” Nope.
intermittent reinforcement!!! same!
TY Dr R for equipping us to form an action plan to evolve into SURVIVOR!
SEE YOU AT THE TOP OF SURVIVOR MOUNTAIN 🎉
Great job of explaining all of this and keeping it 💯
He was a covert/vulnerable narc. I know his back story, his abusive parents. I honestly believed love would help him…..we divorced in December. He refused help, 3 years of me begging. It was the empathy and sympathy I felt for him wanting him to get healing.
It’s not what happens to us but how we respond. Dr Ramani’s teachings WORK IF YOU WORK IT!
Been a while since I watched a video. Still bangers like always! Thanks for keeping up the good fight 💚
I listened to this twice. Thank you, Dr RAMANI.
They don’t change, they just learn how to manipulate other people even better.
Yes we do
We’re also very interested in psychology. We do change. But only able to to a certain extent
Even against you 😢
@darknessignited4024 If you manage to open your black box with your feelings in you and learn to deal with it, then you have a chance to work on yourself, but people don’t fundamentally change. From my point of view, narcissists can only fundamentally change if they were possessed by demons and are liberated by Jesus Christ through real repentant and I mean that seriously.
They learn to fake it by watching other people’s reactions.
Pure gold in this explanation of why the narcissist does what they do.
Every time I listen to you, it confirms…yes, this person does these things.. I see it. Why does my brain constantly question it? I just want to keep that clarity at all times.. but I don’t
It was very sad to me to finally realize that my severely narcissistic mother was never going to change. Even as she approached her 80s because she was battling cancer she really seemed to double down on the gaslighting and manipulation. Even blaming me for her cancer. After working hard to find a research study and getting her in, the clinical study only extended her life by 5 years! She had the narcissistic temerity to say that the drug nearly killed her and prevented her body from fighting off the cancer like it would have had I “not interfered.” She started out with Stage 4 uterine cancer.
Gaslighting, blaming and manipulating until the very end, she cut me out of the estate completely even as her only child. Best thing that ever happened to me! She had spent so long deny reality and stringing her minions along that everything was collapsing and her extremely narcissistic sister got saddled with the entire mess. So careful what you wish for narcissists! Not sure I’ll ever fully heal but my life is happy and above all uneventful!
If they help you ,you will pay for that help in other ways always
Like not just strings attached but a choke chain shock collar!
One of the biggest reasons also narcissist don’t change is their enabling family and friends. If their behavior has no consequence from people around them, they don’t see a reason to change or see themselves as the problem. They all operate the same way.
Exactly 💯
I’ve wanted revenge. I want my nation to be free of external influence of war mongers.
At this point I’m just happy I’m not one of them.
How the narc can turn your attempts to regain self-autonomy into narcissism, then smear your character to anyone and everyone you may go to for help is insane. It crushes your soul, the pain of which just supplies your narc with their need. That’s been the worst part of all of this for me. Using my past traumas to ciminilize me trying to heal.