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3 Things Men Do When They Are Highly Attracted To You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs' dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

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  • @robiniles3685 says:

    We are married now, but when we were dating he lived about 5 minutes down the road. He always made a point of coming to see me every day. Even if we were really busy and it was only for 15 minutes, he always came. That’s how I knew I was a priority in his life and he really cared for me!

  • @ivawood8996 says:

    Be careful of a guy who moves too quickly. You may be dealing with a Narcissist. Speaking from experience

  • @roxannecg5983 says:

    He’s able to be vulnerable. He’s patient and he respects my boundaries.

    • @roxannecg5983 says:

      Jeffrey Bone hence your monicker “BONE” ugh…🙄

    • @nofybn7794 says:

      @Jeffrey Bone NOT a compliment. You ask for way too much! RESPECT WOMEN!! Buddy, you are not better then us. We are NOT toys for your pleasure, you are more then a p—–. Where is brain and heart? Hmm? Two genders/sexes in the world. That is it,male or female. You got lucky. You were female first. You just got lucky to be male in a patriarchy. It could have gone the opposite. A woman gave you your lucky life!! Two genders/sexes in the world. THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU, 50-50 population men and women. A man is a rough draft, a woman is the final masterpiece, respect WOMEN. A real man never hurts a woman. Be very careful when you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. GROW UP. You expect sex as though your a god without price, you lazy selfish p— you are NOT all that and with feeling as well? GET REAL. You are not prince charming/the greatest thing since sliced bread/god. Especially you, you offer almost nothing to a woman. Sexist. Offer more then your small p——.

    • @JJ-yu6og says:

      THIS!!!

  • @emilyirvineartist says:

    Doesn’t hold back their excitement to see you again. Makes plans for a second date on the 1st date or shortly after. Doesn’t keep me wondering, communicates consistently and allows me to share my feeling, respects my boundaries and follows through with action. Looks into my eyes and can’t help but smile at me. Time flies while in deep conversation. Can compliment me and doesn’t leave me wondering if he finds me desirable and attractive.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 says:

      Had all these more than once. It was a trap set by them on purpose.

    • @lisastewart4364 says:

      Yesssss all of this!!!!

    • @anonimothy5979 says:

      I told my friend about them being excited for the next meetup and making plans but she didn’t listen.

      After spending a whole weekend having lots of sex with a particular guy, she said that he was ready to fly back to his city and get back to work. I told her that’s not good.

      He withdrew from her, once home, and when hounded about his lack of attention, he replied that he felt like being selfish at the moment.

      In my own experience, whenever guys are being “selfish” they’re taking up MY time. Not taking a break away from me.

    • @anonimothy5979 says:

      @@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 I’ve had all of these and it often resulted in marriage proposals. Is that “the trap” you’re referring to? Lol

    • @georgialee6755 says:

      She should t have slept with him

  • @ourtravelingzoo3740 says:

    Here I’ll make it simple. They treat you nicely. They make time and effort to spend time with you. They strive to be a better person. Anything less and they are pretending. Run

    • @beverlyangermeier3161 says:

      My man wants to. Be with me because he wants to see our relationship work so he is comming from a different state just to spend time with me

  • @eps4560 says:

    1. Advancing things (in a healthy manner)
    2. Wanting to be together (spend time)
    3. Consistent and congruent behavior (no mixed signals. words and actions add up from the get go)

    • @margaretholmes8492 says:

      My man talks to me every night and normally always leaves a good morning text what do you think ?

    • @samarztk says:

      Margaret Holmes good sign!

    • @Meyouletsgo says:

      Margaret Holmes depends, I had guys who text daily and phone call and FaceTime but that’s bullshit !

    • @aimeeforAmerica says:

      I agree with all 3 signs. What I’m realizing is how to spot the phonies. Just broke up with my now ex-man. I realized he’s a phony. He would ask questions twice. The same question I’ve already answered. This tells me he was either not listening or not genuine. Both things are red flags. ;(

    • @janaball5995 says:

      @@aimeeforAmerica it also could mean hes talking to several women n cant keep info straight. If hes really into u he will b remember ~especially important personal facts…

  • @EmilyBenitez says:

    When he’s smiling almost the whole time, when he’s completely present in the conversation, and yes…when he’s asking questions!

  • @louisep4805 says:

    Take your time ladies if they like u they will stick around 👍

  • @dianagamez76 says:

    A sign i get from a guy who really likes me is: he listens and remembers what I said in a conversation weeks or months ago.

  • @supastar9805 says:

    “C” is definitely the key! If there isn’t consistency in his words and especially his ACTIONS, and you’re gut is reacting to that, LISTEN to your gut! Your gut never lies but, your heart can. Best lesson I’ve ever learned personally.

    • @Jackgritty28 says:

      Time to get her phone number✔❗

    • @freshstrt3140 says:

      Im learning this lesson the hard way 🙏🏽
      The wisdoms of the ages both say
      “Follow your Heart”
      “Listen to your Gut”
      Well, which one????? I kept asking myself. Again and again.
      Your gut. Your gut. I now know.
      The hard way. The hard way.
      And im still not free.
      Please God. Find me the strength to walk away and never look back.

    • @lucthomas7626 says:

      Absolutely !

    • @lucianahurduc9383 says:

      So true! 🎯👌

  • @AngelaPortugal26 says:

    I was in a relationship with a narcissist, he was very committed until he had me..then I had to beg for affection until I couldn’t anymore. If you are dating a narcissist run away from it asap…it will only get worse.,

  • @Florida-is-my-home says:

    I was friends with the love of my life for over ten years before we became “an item”. We were both in other relationships that weren’t “right”. But they had to play out before we ended up together. He’s an honorable person, and made every effort to make the other relationship work, and so did I. We both agree that this is the best relationship we ever had. The best relationships were first and foremost FRIENDS FIRST. If they’re not friend material – they’re not relationship material.

    • @amariiah says:

      zarralinda true

    • @nofybn7794 says:

      I don’t agree. You have to literally be friends. Friend like but not actual friends. You are actual friends, you won’t move on to romantic.

    • @marielamarinova4786 says:

      Absolutely. Best strategy is: Start by being close friends and slowly progress if you’re a match. That’s also the reason I avoid guys with girls as best friends- in most cases they’re the perfect match and end up together.

    • @ashleycbla says:

      But the thing is no relationship ever starts out without one or the other person thinking that you both are friends. The difference is a man who want to be with you is going to build a friendship while going towards a relationship within the first 6 months to a year. I can be friends with anyone I can have a good conversation with. When looking for a relationship/marriage material I look at our foundational beliefs and morals and if those don’t match it’s not going to work. I don’t care how much we laugh and enjoy each other company there will be problems down the line if we don’t have the same foundational beliefs. Keep in mind ladies while we think we are just only friends with a man, he is thinking otherwise. There are exceptions but 9 out of 10 men who are willing to date a women who friend zoned him or he friend zoned her in the beginning has either 1. Ran out of options, 2. Using you 3. Getting you back from friend zoning him in the beginning (while he’s with you he’s either emotionally or physically cheating).

    • @newbeginnings9297 says:

      Unequivocally, agree!

  • @lolaanava6686 says:

    He makes excuses to touch you! As much as he can, or leans on you, tries to get close physically, by touching your hands or putting his hands on you without seeming rude, just to touch you. Thats one I’ve noticed!

  • @Nongrouli says:

    If a guy really is seriously in love with you …he will care for you more than anyone else

  • @emgee4075 says:

    I completely agree with the part where Matt says “the less important a relationship is to him, the more relaxed he will be with the agreements he makes and keeps… is a red flag”. Thank you for that validation – I literally just stopped dating someone for this very thing. When he sensed my disappointment for not being more proactive in talking to and seeing me, he said it was “too much pressure”. See ya!

  • @jasprerph says:

    My honey did all those things when we started dating and even after 5 years and he’s the same patient, strong, consistent and loving man.

    • @Februarybaby68 says:

      Aww, that’s sweet! I pray 🙏 to God to send me a man like yours!❤

    • @vivianhinzano2967 says:

      Say a prayer each day and be thankful.

    • @ranitagadling4312 says:

      @@vivianhinzano2967 I pray & thank God everyday for constantly showing me that being single is my ultimate destiny.

    • @antoinettehellyer9522 says:

      Lucky you!. I fell in love at 11. Because he was the only one Who didn’t call me ugly.after I smashed my Teeth , I was v well spoken But v poor. I prayed I would be beautiful ,and he would move opperst me and marry me.but I never saw him again. The houses burned down oppersit and new ones built over the years, guess who moved in oppersit!. I was far too shy to speak but had a friend went over with me and spoke to him. Of course I never told of my secret love. But he made friends with her And My brother. And I married him. But he had been in care in Northan Ireland and had a v famous Ex there who married someone else , so he made do with me, and was always bragging about his ex. I DID ALL i could but no way could ever compeat. It wasnt a marriage He never loved me. He always had to go. I was more single when married.no food no nappies for baby. I baught my Christmas gifts from him to me, out of shame. And that ex was always on T.V so he could brag about Her. He phoned my Mum about 5 years later. Saying I am doing a good job being single parent, so children can look after their old dad when they grow up!. He had it all planned out, but we have other plans. God bless and be careful what you pray for. We all deserve to be truly loved. But I didnt believe I could be loved back then. I didnt know God said I am of more value than many sparrows or it ment he gave his life for me. I just wanted to tell you this.

    • @rosannecole4992 says:

      Blessings to you..” !

  • @lw6502 says:

    A man is highly attracted to a woman when he is patient and understands that she needs time before jumping into a physical relationship. He will be willing to share a friendship with her until she’s comfortable and not rush things. A true man realizes that a woman’s trust has to come first and is worth waiting for.

    • @kathy6222 says:

      A true man will propose marriage before “jumping into a physical relationship” with her. If, as you say, “she is worth waiting for”, she is worth putting a ring on her finger and marrying her!

  • @jjtsmom says:

    Matt Boggs, you’re right on all counts. In my 60’s, a widow, was married for 40 years, so dating is completely new to this old lady! The guy who found and sought me out did all of the things you listed, and so far, our relationship is blossoming. Thank you for the advice.

  • @Vy-Oh-Letter says:

    1/A: Advances the relationship – 1:29
    2/B: Be close to you – 3:24
    3/C: Consistency with his words and actions – 5:38

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