“He doesn’t need you to fill the silence…”
A lot of women treat a quiet moment like a problem they have to solve. The silence lands, something in you goes oh no, and you reach for a question, a joke, your phone — anything to fill it.
He wasn't uncomfortable, my dear. Comfort doesn't need a soundtrack.
His whole day is noise. Solve this, answer that, perform here. A woman who can just exist next to him, needing nothing filled? He'll drive across town for that.
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True, sometimes you just need a few minutes or so to let your body to decompress
exactly! you get it 🙂
https://youtu.be/1PRcX7rGH2k?is=y_OSK5dVjPfyMXip
Depeche Mode Enjoy the Silence
such a clasic song!!
@Mat_ShafferThe Silence…ummm idmost likely say something..like whew that was nice or homeschooling nonsense….id get up and go to the bathroom if it wasnt weird..
Yes thats why police use the silent method so that people fill uncomfortable silence. I think its odd after sharing bodily fluids and the height of human intimacy that its reduced to stuttering ” er umm would you like a err ummm coffee?” Its insanity really.
truly!
Silence can have all kinds of reasons
behind it, so of course we get
anxious if we don’t know.
I totally understand! I do too 🙂
I love my silence 🤫
yess silence can be so good in a healthy relationship!
i can def was silent with him at times and he still rejected me lol… so im flipping the house , then i can have an open house to all the bachelors in the world , then im selling😅❤
haha new scenery can definitely lhelp shift the energy!
Hi. For me is was opposite..I wanted that from him.
interesting! did you ask him for it??
Most women think the silence is the problem. He was fine — you were the one
who couldn’t sit in it. 🤍
Be honest: when it goes quiet, do you fill it? What do you reach for first —
a question, a joke, or your phone? 👇 I read every single comment.
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