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When a Narcissist Lies About You to His New Partner
You don't have to correct his version of events for his new audience. The record already tells the truth. Free workshop: victoriamccooey.com/workshop #NarcissisticDivorce #SmearCampaign #HighConflictDivorce 📞 BOOK A BREAKTHROUGH CALL ($97) — the first step toward working with me privately: 🎓 Not ready for a call? Join my free live workshop: Can't make it live? […]
Continue readingWhy a Narcissist Refuses to Settle the Divorce
If ending the conflict feels like losing to him, no offer will be generous enough. Build yours around what you can live with, not what might satisfy him. Free workshop: victoriamccooey.com/workshop #NarcissisticDivorce #DivorceSettlement #HighConflictDivorce 🔹 Join She Breaks Free Support Circle: 🔹 Purchase my digital course, First, Shift Your Mindset: 🔹Get my book, So I […]
Continue readingHow to Communicate With a Narcissistic Co-Parent
Share what your parenting plan requires, in as few words as it takes. Your hopes and wishes are just more for him to work with. #CoParentingWithANarcissist #ParallelParenting #HighConflictCoParenting 🔹 Join She Breaks Free Support Circle: 🔹 Purchase my digital course, First, Shift Your Mindset: 🔹Get my book, So I Married a Narcissist: 🔹 Apply for […]
Continue readingYour Narcissistic Divorce Is Taking Too Long. Here’s What NOT to Do
Divorcing a narcissist and it's been going on for years? At some point you may think, "I'll sign anything. I just want this over." My own divorce took six years, and if I could go back, there are five things I'd tell myself not to do while I waited. 📞 BOOK A BREAKTHROUGH CALL ($97) […]
Continue readingHis urgency is not your emergency
You don't have to respond on his clock. Free live workshop for women married to or divorcing a narcissist, tonight at 5 PM ET. Can't make it live? Register for the replay: #shorts #highconflictdivorce #narcissisticabuse 🔹 Join She Breaks Free Support Circle: 🔹 Purchase my digital course, First, Shift Your Mindset: 🔹Get my book, So […]
Continue readingWhat to Send Your Divorce Lawyer, and What Not To
Not every divorce problem is a legal problem. Sort them before you hit send, and your lawyer's time goes where it actually counts. Free workshop: victoriamccooey.com/workshop #DivorceAttorney #HighConflictDivorce #NarcissisticDivorce 🔹 Join She Breaks Free Support Circle: 🔹 Purchase my digital course, First, Shift Your Mindset: 🔹Get my book, So I Married a Narcissist: 🔹 Apply […]
Continue readingWhy “stay calm and explain” backfires with a controlling spouse
The usual advice assumes both people want to resolve things. In a marriage governed by control, it keeps you stuck. Free live workshop for women married to or divorcing a narcissist, Wednesday, October 14, 5 PM ET: #shorts #highconflictdivorce #narcissisticabuse 🔹 Join She Breaks Free Support Circle: 🔹 Purchase my digital course, First, Shift Your […]
Continue readingEarly Signs of Narcissistic Abuse in a Marriage
If you spend more time explaining yourself than being understood, pay attention to that. You don't need his agreement to see the pattern. #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #WalkingOnEggshells 🔹 Join She Breaks Free Support Circle: 🔹 Purchase my digital course, First, Shift Your Mindset: 🔹Get my book, So I Married a Narcissist: 🔹 Apply for private coaching […]
Continue readingWhy the Narcissist Looks Reasonable in Court, and Isn’t
He can look calm in the courtroom and create chaos everywhere else. Your answer isn't to get louder. It's a clear, dated, relevant record. Free workshop: victoriamccooey.com/workshop #NarcissisticDivorce #HighConflictDivorce #DivorceDocumentation 🔹 Join She Breaks Free Support Circle: 🔹 Purchase my digital course, First, Shift Your Mindset: 🔹Get my book, So I Married a Narcissist: 🔹 […]
Continue readingWhy the Narcissist Keeps Moving the Goalposts During Divorce
Divorcing a narcissist? You give him what he asked for, and suddenly there's one more condition. Then another. That's moving the goalposts, and once you recognize it, you can stop exhausting yourself chasing a finish line that keeps moving. 📞 BOOK A BREAKTHROUGH CALL ($97) — the first step toward working with me privately: 🎓 […]
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