5 Sexy Things Men LOVE to Hear in Bed!
Want to make a man melt during sex? Here are some super-hot things men are dying to hear from you in bed… but are afraid to ask for!
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What do I say to a guy in bed? What to men like to hear during sex? What turns a man on when you're in bed with him? I have gotten a lot of questions about this from my clients and students over the years… so I created a video sharing 5 hot phrases that will make any man go WILD during physical intimacy! Try them out and let us know how it goes in the comments 😉
TIMELINE
01:47 – Rules for Communicating: Specifics are hot for men
02:06 – Rules for Communicating: We are invested on how you feel
02:25 – Rules for Communicating: You are leading by example
03:18 – 1. How turned on you are
04:37 – 2. How good what they're doing feels
05:52 – 3. Specific instructions
07:43 – 4. Asking for his body
10:11 – 5. Authentic moaning and nonverbal expression
12:19 – Bonus Tip
13:40 – Recap
16:44 – Outro
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QUESTION OF THE DAY – What are your favorite man melting dirty phrases you like to hear in bed? 🔥
Why don’t you pin this comment, Mr S? 😀
Looking to see you
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Thanks for your input. Since ive been raped in my past and childhood i had issues with sex and doing things to a man and visa versa. Now finally im with a man who WON’T hurt me or rape me and i do so want to please him and also get pleasure from him. How tho can i stop having flashbacks when he does certain things to me like pat or touch my butt which is a hugh trigger for me.
Thank you for such an open topic. Every woman should listen
This entire video made me ‘blush’ 😂, I clearly have a lot of work to do.
You can do it! Haha you got this 🙂
@@Mat_Shaffer Mat!! It feels Great getting a response from you. Thank you! Well I look forward to practicing when I find that awesome, committed, relationship!
Yah same here, 🤭 talking so specific like this doesn’t sound sexy to me but I guess they do!🤣
Its never too late to start my luv! Start now 😉
😂Omg me too
This is such a great episode. So true! Thanks for talking about what we need to hear.
Damnit! I was watching this at work on my lunch break and Meg Ryan’s movie groaning came on! I about threw my phone!!! 😂 I’m so embarrassed.
Haha and i watching it now in office lucky me..i am using head set if not…haha will be same with you 😀😀
@@ernikaflower7654 least you’re smart enough to use a headset. Good work. Lol
😂😂
Oh rip 😂
😅😅😂😂🤣
Wow! Thank you Mat for being so open and real about sexual intimacy. We, as humans, need more of this for happier healthier relationships with our partners. The happier we are in our intimate relationship the happier we are overall –
the ripple affect…
I had to read that again I could have swore it said, “nipple effect”.
OMG -dude, this was an extremely enjoyable video, I got so turn e d on, learned a few things and received validation for a few things so thank you very much – highly appreciated!
I think I’ll be watching this video a f ew times!
Wow! That’s what I say to him all the time even over the phone. This is not anything new to me.
Yeah that’s true
I luv how you keep it real in the bedroom – straight from the man’s point of view- you are so awesome Mat ♥️
yasss you gotta keep it real in the bedroom!
I m New in here looking 👧👧💗💗😍😍❤🌷🌷
hi 👋 pretty lady how are you doing
Thank you for this. My man loves it when I “talk to him” in bed and I literally go silent in fear of saying something that will kill the mood. This is the video I needed!
So glad my content supports you 🙂
Lol I’m married and we started off as f buddies.. so after 2 years it all seems repetitive 😂 and I think the same that he will think I’m boring or I’ll kill the mood… but I also know his trigger words so idk..
@24carrots33 Exactly the same for me!!
I’ve been married 22 years and I’m here still wanting to please my husband 🥰
I love that he calls it “talk to him” so sweet and connected!!
Yep, did all these with my late husband! 30 years together, 28 married. Sigh. Missing him every day!!!
He is in a better place now, Be strong Sandra🤗
Same here Sandra. My late husband and I were married for 36 years. I did everything that was mentioned in this video and it did drive him wild.
Married over 32+ yrs.. The big C took him. Now it’s been 8 yrs!!! I’m getting back in the pool. Scared to death!!!!!! He says the phone sex is great! But I have one more area?lol. The place between the balls and back door entrance. That would make late hubby, explode!!!!! My tongue all over it. Just saying.
I’m a widow too, and am praying for you.
Yes, let your sound out, sometimes it’s emotional release and healing and you will feel better forever, I remember a partner who reopened my hips after shutting down after a heartbreak and I cried a lot and it was a huge physical and emotional breakthrough. I got him whimpering shaking and crying once as well years later and he was so happy with whatever it released
It’s 100% possible to heal and create something new❤️
Reopen the hips 😂
reopened the hips? what?
since we are energetic beings we typically have blocked chakra centers. Especially the sacral & the heart chakra.. any repressed or unaddressed emotions can do that, and any not loving of our own bodies and not honoring and respecting it first and foremost… treating it well and spoiling it… can only bring in someone who does the same.
Like attracts like.
FINALLY! Real, knowledgeable and useful information that are almost like instructions towards a reasonably PG couple who are still in the innocent stage of their sexual journey. Regards!
YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you🙂
No its not hes soeaking for himself. We dont love these things. I dont know where he made this stuff up. Never give instructions
Using these tips when my dream man comes into my life. A man moaning during sex is such a turn on.
Amazing! love hearing that!
Agreed. Period.
I love their primal sounds too!!
Knowing that he is also into the moment is great! Silence is a killer.
@@laurajohnson9753 Oh God yes, silence is a MAJOR turn off, especially during climaxing.
I already do all of these and was told by my dude mid act “the way you talk to me drives me wild” so these tips are true 😏
Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!
A woman will only respond like this when a man is a giver! A selfish partner is a huge turn off!
Great point!
Hehehe why are you shouting 😂😹
💯💯
100%!
True
You’re single and You’re watching this video like me!!? Like, single matters
Welcome!
Well I have to definitely 100% agree with the girl who just commented on why does being single matter it doesn’t it’s so much better by yourself at least that’s my perception of what her comment meant and I could be wrong but you know what majority of men out there they’re not givers but they’re definitely takers the main focus is getting off even if it’s neglecting their partner the select handful of men I found in my lifetime that acted as if that’s what they loved ultimately loved and that was their first priority before themselves that my dear is true they were exactly like that but you know what the hardest most excruciating pain in a relationship is from intimacy and lack of when touch human
I was not done yet I’ll make this quick when you get in a relationship with someone who has met you in a state of constant trauma and sexual abuse and physical abuse and knows everything you’ve been through and they use à tool àl or a weapon of mass destruction that’s exactly what it is you have not done to me what everyone else has done to me in my lifetime and the things you said you never do you did you took away my feeling of safety which I value so much security love and belonging which is all a lie I valued all of that and you used it to break me down to nothing but guess what I forgave you for that in case one of your ex’s send this to you I forgive you I’m actually able to move forward right now on that part because I’m so tired of looking at YouTube and saying nothing but stuff a narcissist and it’s deceiving and it’s sitting and it has everyone who looks at it wondering if she one is he one am I one I do that she does that who’s who can à I actually started looking at what they were saying and said my God that’s me in many ways but not because I’m a narcissist mind you it’s because of childhood tramaanyways the whole point I was trying to make I’ve had the most mind-blowing or shaking orgasms I’ve ever had in my entire life by myself 1 because I didn’t have to feel insecure or be someone I wasn’t for someone else to love me or look different for someone because they’re in the p*** and you have to look like that God forbid for them to want you know doing it by yourself is probably the most amazing sex you could ever have know if I could find a guy who actually cared about my feelings and didn’t know a damn thing about me he’s the one he will be the one the one who knows nothing about me but who cares about me first before p himself and he is definitely a keeper and what’s funny is I am one of the most open-minded women a man could find and I believe they find it intimidating as hell hey I’m willing to have a threesome here and there I’m willing to get wild and crazy and do things that you would never think I’m capable of I like to watch p*** too I’d rather watch it with my man than by myself though locked in a room
This was so helpful! I have wondered what things I might do better with my partner and this was nicely explained without being coarse or crude. I’m going to start implementing these tips. Thanks Mat!
Glad it was helpful! You’re welcome! ❤❤❤
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These are extremely accurate. Though, men also get conditioned to not make any sounds, since it’s seen as weak, or not masculine. Personally, I love hearing what I’m doing is affecting my man. I love it when he requests/demands me for things, and moans when he goes down on me, it has similar effects of women as well, plus it does show enthusiasm which makes me feel more connected to him, and more appreciated as well. I also love hearing how turned on I make him. So while these tips work for women, to do on men, it works for men to do on women as well.
Thank you for sharing!
I agree .a man needs to participate fully. If I can’t see you, I want to atleast hear you
Get to the point, too many dtaged out explinations🤔🤔🤩
I love when a man shows he likes it
@@seniorita3287YESS you said it!
“Any man that is secure in himself ” that’s what’s key
yessss❤️
1. Specifics are hot for men! ( what turns you on and How turned on you feel, it raises the polarity)
2. Men are invested in how women feel ( share with him how you are feeling – men crave acknowledgement for their actions from women)
3. You lead by example, the way you communicate in vulnerability when in bed – give him instructions and requests, share your roadmap to pleasure, own your value)
4. Ask, beg for his body. eg ask for his lips, or lingam or beg for his come. Ask him for permission to do something, eg can I kiss you there?
5. Authentic moaning or other non verbal expressions (give yourself permission to express the pleasure you are feeling)
Great tips ! Thank you very much! 🎉❤
Many Thanks
True tht
Great thoughts! Thanks from a wife 🙂
Thanks for being straightforward and real. Great tips and advice! I’m glad I’m doing this! More on this subject would be even better!😊
Great suggestion!